Navidad en Mexico -- Christmas in Mexico

My husband and I will be leaving on the 19th for Mexico so we’ll be spending Christmas on our own in Mazathlan – a first for on our own and a first for Matzatlan. The children are adults with children of their own so they want to build their own family traditions. I’m all for this! I absolutely believe that they should be creating their own customs and they have my full support. We had a family get together today, which was chaos but a fun, lovely chaos.

I’ve been so very lucky to have spent Christmas, or some time in the month of Christmas in different countries so have sampled some fabulous traditions. Fo many years, I had Christmas in the UK with Christmas pudding and mince pies (niether are to my liking but my husband adores both!), crackers (filled with little silly jokes, toys and hats) and boxing day celebrations. Every year we would visit an outdoor market in Bath where the aroma of mulled wine mixed with cedar, woodburning fires and other holiday smells filled me with a true welcoming sense that Christmas was almost here. These little stalls filled with fasinating handicraft and traditional items were set against the beautiful backdrop of the Bath Abbey. Often there were choral groups performing a whole medley of Christmas songs. It’s an experience that’s hard to beat.

I’ve also been in Copenhagen and visited the open air handicraft stalls in Tivoli Gardens with twinkling lights filling the park and making it a fantasy land. We also watched the changing of the guard at Amalienborg Castle, the Royal Residence, during a light snow fall and then warmed up in a local pub with grog (warmed, spiced wine) and pepper nuts (the worlds best small spiced cookies). There was also a business trip to Stuttgart where I spent an afternoon wandering through outdoor handicraft stalls and again, the smells filling the air just gave me a sense of what an old fashioned Christmas must have been like before the days of Black Friday at the malls and shopping on-line.

One year, my husband and I were traveling through Paris at Christmas time when our flight was cancelled. We didn’t consider this a hardship at all because Paris during the Christmas season is a fantasy of lights and I think it’s actually known as the “City of Lights”, although they do celebrate Bonne année (happy new year) more than Christmas. We took the train into the heart of Paris for dinner and we were lucky in that there was snow and ice so The Avenue des Champs-Élysées had been transformed into a Winter Wonderland. The trees that lined this beautiful street were covered in strings of lights making it incredibly romantic.

I do really miss the outdoor markets found in Europe because they are all so special but my husband and I are forming new traditions now that we are living in the US. Visiting the beautiful Longwood Gardens in Pennsylvania is definitely one that we’ll keep. I guess that it was all of the poinsettias there this past week that really got me into the Navidad en Mexico spirit. And now, I’m looking forward to Christmas in Mexico. It’s a land of fiestas (festivals) and Posadas (processions) leading up to Christmas and I’m excited to see and learn about new customs and traditions.

There are probably as many Christmas traditions as there are families. Whatever your traditions are, I hope that you fulfill them and have a happy and wonderful holiday.

Please send me some of your own traditions – I’m interested to learn how you celebrate the holidays.

Whatever you do to celebrate – have a very wonderful holiday and enjoy the time with family.

Sushi, Sake and Sumos

I’ve just returned from a “magical” two weeks visiting several cities in southern Japan – a gift that my husband and I gave ourselves to celebrate our 20^th wedding anniversary.  When emailing one of my friends, she asked what I meant by magical.  It’s really the only way that I can describe the whole trip because absolutely everything was beautiful and planned to perfection thanks to a group called Samurai Tours, http://www.samuraitours.com/. We seldom book on tours because we prefer to do our own thing but when there is a big language challenge, tons of sites to visit and culture to absorb, we prefer to leave the arrangements to local professionals. Our guides provided us with the perfect Japanese experience.

As soon as you arrive in Japan, you quickly notice that it’s a land of stark contrasts between the old and the new.  It is a beautiful and amazing country that is filled with polite people and contrasting sites of modern high-rise buildings alongside hundreds-year old temples and shrines, some with raked gardens. This contrast can also be seen as people stop by a shrine to quickly pray before running off to the trains where they use their cell phones to text (talking on them isn’t allowed) while riding to work or school. Everywhere you turn there is beauty and attention to design and detail – even things such as bento boxes.  This you’d expect because of their exquisite display of food at every meal – but manhole covers?  These were often decorated artistically and with symbolism. Japan is pristinely clean everywhere you go which is quite amazing considering the number of people who live in Japan and are constantly moving around. What was also amazing was the scarcity of garbage cans.  We found it almost impossible to throw away a water bottle or bag that had contained lunch or snacks – and if we did find the bins, we had to figure out how to recycle our items.  We once had a woman take a garbage bag from one of the couples on the tour so that she could take it home to throw it away. We loved the fact that people are not allowed to talk on their cell (mobile) phones on the subways and trains.  Although we had many very tightly packed rides, there was not one obnoxious person letting us in on his/her side of a phone conversation. In many cities, you see raised/patterned yellow pavement paths that are used as guidelines for blind people.

We noticed that there seemed to be vending machines every couple of blocks and they were more than plentiful in the train stations. So no matter where you go you can buy all kinds of drinks such as sodas, energy drinks and coffee shots as well as snacks and cigarettes. You can even buy beer from a vending machine.

One of the things that brought our group a lot of laughs, were the very technical toilets complete with heated seats, bidets and even a button that provides music. 

The only word that keeps coming to mind when I think of our trip to Japan is magical – in so many ways.  The attention to detail provided by the tour guides and their company, the cleanliness and orderliness of the Japanese day-to-day existence, the respect that is shown to everyone – regardless of their “status”, their strict adherence to time and schedules, the pride in who they are as a people! This means that they respect themselves enough to dress properly and act appropriately regardless of their station.  There are so many lessons to learn from these very extraordinary people!!

If anyone is interested in taking a breathtaking trip, literally because most days we walked several miles, I can’t recommend Samurai Tours highly enough.  And if you want a truly Japanese experience definitely stay in the ryokans (traditional Japanese inns where you sleep on futons on tatami mats and have shared baths).