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Wednesday, September 19, 2012

Happy Birthday to Me (and all the rest of you Virgos and Libras)


September is an incredibly busy month for birthdays and anniversaries in our family, and it includes both milestones for me. My husband and I were married a week before my birthday so we tend to go away somewhere to celebrate both our anniversary and my birthday. That’s exactly what we’ll be doing this year but we are only managing a long weekend. I’m still excited because it includes two museum visits that I’m really looking forward to.

Year 63 has been a great year filled with wonderful experiences such as international trips, publishing an e-book on Amazon, watching the grandsons grow up, spending time with friends, taking writing classes and working on my blog.

There have been challenges too - such has major implant surgery. But hey, life is full of challenges and they can be overcome. I’m proof of that. This particular experience led me to think about others who go through this type of surgery or have some disorder that prevents them from eating solid foods. My surgeon’s office told me that they are always looking for ideas and recipes and since I was doing a lot of food and eating experiments, I decided to put a smoothie and soup cookbook together and publish it on Amazon. While the surgery isn’t an experience that I’d want to wish on anyone, my end result has been well worth the inconvenience. I recently learned that a personal trainer’s mother was undergoing intensive treatment on her throat and thought that all she could eat was mashed potatoes. My technician recommended my book, Recipe Solutions for a Liquid Diet, and the trainer’s mother  LOVES it because it gives her so many options that she had never considered.

Having always been honest about my age, I have never been able to understand why women lie about it and moan whenever they have to give their age.  Maybe it’s easier now because a lot of the celebrities are around my age. I mean, look at Dame Helen Mirren – she was voted as having the hottest body recently!!  One of my all-time favorite movies is Calendar Girls staring actresses of my age in all shapes and sizes.  If you haven’t seen the movie, it’s a definite must. If you have seen it but not for a while, rent it again.  We’ve just watched it again for the umpteenth time and it’s just so must fun! And for you guys who are reading this, watch The Full Monty! We’ve also recently watched this again for the umpteenth time and while it depicts a time that’s a few years ago, it’s still incredibly funny!

So being a “Boomer” is an exciting stage of life. Most of us feel more comfortable; we’re still full of dreams and things to come. I keep hearing that 50 is the new 30 and 60 is the new 40. But do any of us really want to go back to those ages?  Not me! I have to admit that I’d rather have the body that I did back then but I wouldn’t have the experiences that I’ve had in the past twenty years. I’m relishing the excitement of future travel and stimulating experiences.

I still have plans and dreams - and as I turn 64, which will happily (and hopefully) lead to 65, 66, 67 and well beyond. . . . I will continue to celebrate each and every passing year.

If your birthday is this month -- Happy birthday to you, whatever day it is. Celebrate it, don't moan about it. Without birthdays, there would be no you.

“Aging is not what we used to think it was, where you peak at middle age. It’s ascending a staircase into growth, wisdom, well-being and happiness.”
                                                                                                                       Jane Fonda

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